09/23/2020
I'm emotionally drained and saddend to the core. Sometimes when a person cries for help the seriousness of their SOS isn't taken serious because it doesn't meet the criteria to the reader so nobody responds and keeps scrolling. Social media platforms make it super easy to reach out to people in this modern time and it's funny strange and true how many good Christians ignore others this exact way. If nobody can help it doesn't mean nobody cares. The action results in the person needing help not being specific to ones needs, but too shy and or self confident in their own decision making. There isn't a single opinion that can justify someone's true feelings deep down when they're turned down. Many take it more serious than some think. We're all different. No reason to turn the other cheek. If a bridge was burned don't bad mouth a troubled soul just keep an open mind and have a conference to aid with resources and not argue to fight. There's nothing wrong with grouping up with some good ideas and being supportive that way. No su***de moment at all here, but in many cases in Spokane alone that comes to be from a lack of positive support unfortunately and nationwide. In this matter the wrong place at the wrong time led to a final destination. I teach my students to look out for one another and learn from each other and mold a better relationship with their training partners. This builds unity and power within and strengthens love between all. The karate family can be exactly like any family in society no matter the religion, ethnic culture or country. The shaolin work together in private so why can't society? If any one person has ever been ignored for whatever reason when calling for help in any way even if things look strange on any social media post from anyone you know when and if you see it then reach out and say something! If they ignore you when you think they're needing help then contact the closest friend or relative amd point it out. Point out the behavior without ridicule or badmouthing so bite that bad tongue and speak harmoniously with good nature. This can help save a life in the worse case scenario or at best make a person happy because you showed obvious care and when all do the same it it recognize in whole. Stop the neglect! Stop the hate! Stop the grudges! Stop the labeling! Constantly doing so by everyone is taken as a push away and it is a terrible trend nationwide between families and friends. This is why the best family tend to be inmates for some unfortunately. Think with an open mind. Think about how many times a person has already been spoken rude to before you engage them with concern if you're even going to talk at them and not listen. Be an ear and a positive influence at your best with good redirection if you can't be supportive in other ways. Life is rough for us all especially in 2020. Those that are doing much better than others are so comfortable in their own shells and skin that it's super easy for them to keep turning someone down without even helping redirect them to the next best resource. This is the mindset of the careless rich as well. Good thing everybody isn't right? Many are ignorant of such positive resources until they're dumbfounded later with smiles. I myself have sent out a post for those that would need rental assistance that is currently available per city if you Google (your city name, rent and grant) all in the search bar. Fortunately, there is currently a rent/mortgage moratorium. Life is what happens after we plan. 2020 is a teaching and learning year and the entire world is not focused on how to come together. So is this year a final exam? If so everyone is failing miserably in many avenues. We're all faced with great challenges in life even if we're not able to assist we can help redirect which makes us a helper like a bridge. Thanks for reading my heartwarming message and caring. Sometimes only friends have the biggest ear and heart. ❤
Namaste 🙏🏼☯️
