Domme by Default

09/24/2019

I am Ms. Red living up to the bold power and dominance of my namesake. Naturally dominant, I have been knowingly a Dominant since 2009, when I started honing my skills as a lifestyle Domme.

I conduct myself with the poise and dignity, the fact I have manners does not undermine my authority. I am average - at 5’5” - strong and confident woman, my traditional curves and looks command the attention of any room I enter.

I am not the stereotypical Dom in either appearance or mentality. I care about the well being of those who speak to me. I am personable but will discipline those who require it, verbally or physically within agreed limits. Those who know me say I’m just the right balance of approachable and strict which, so I’m told, is apparently a breath of fresh air. There is a time and a place for all things.

My ever-growing collection of implements for administering humiliation, escape, pain and or punishment - not all enjoy pain; range through a variety of canes, whips, spanking tools, rope, needles, fire cupping, a collection of sensory items and a selection of violet wands.

Many diverse individuals, female, male and couples seek my knowledge ranging from novices yearning to enhance and integrate a newly found B**M experience into their lifestyle through to those well versed in the nuances of pain and suffering. The rich and powerful right down to the every day Joe, with me you are all equal.

You may wish for me to help you control your life and keep you in check with real punishments whilst others in my presence will benefit from submitting to my will to escape the demands of their own life. Or you may want to experience a fantasy, which I am more than comfortable with.

I enjoy nothing more than smiling sweetly as I hum, putting you off your guard before delivering the desired session. I may even be laughing or giggling as you try to hide the fact that you’re enjoying what you receive.

I care about and respect the safety, consent and limits of anyone who offers me their submission. I will read your body and its reactions, together with any pre agreed safety word/system. And I allow constructive feedback, because I enjoy learning as well.

I do not tolerate time wasters – meaning those who seek the thrills of constant messages and choose to ask me to make them my slave or they will make me submit to them. If you qualify as one of these types, you will be marked down on my sh*tlist.

I regularly attend events in Nebraska and Iowa.

MY INTERESTS ( this is just some of my bbn interests)
• Anal/strap on/pegging
• Ball Busting
• Bastinardo
• Body Worship
• Bo***ge
• Boot/shoe/foot worship
• Breast bo***ge
• Chastity control
• Confinement
• C**k & ball torture CBT
• Corporal punishment
• Corsets & stockings
• Electric’s
• Face slapping
• Feminization
• Gags & hoods
• Humiliation
• Human furniture
• Interrogation
• Leg worship
• Mummification
• Maid/Valet service
• Ni**le tease or torture
• C**t & p***y torture CPT
• Role play fantasies
• Spanking
• Sensory depravation
• Sensation play
• Slave training
• Sissyfication
• Trampling
• Tickling
• Water sports
• Wax play
• Whipping & flogging

I WILL CONSIDER: DEPENDING ON THE SESSION/SITUATION
• Age play
• Breath play
• Forced Bi
• Needle play
• Puppy & pony play
• Wrestling

MY HARD LIMITS

DON’T EVEN ASK FOR – THE ANSWER IS NO

SEXUAL SERVICES: I am a Dom, not a prostitute/escort/. So therefore I WILL NOT provide hand relief no matter how special you think you are. I will verbally instruct should the mood take me or make you shuffle on the carpet like a dog. BUT if you require physical sexual relief then I’m not the Dom for you.

HARD SPORTS: I'm talking poo and vomit here. Not something I enjoy, both are a no.

ANIMAL PLAY: I’m talking actual animals here – it’s illegal and wrong!

WISHLIST

I LOVE presents, if you really want to please me, then something special is the way forward. I have Amazon Wishlist. What Domme doesn’t enjoy receiving gifts and new toys? And honestly post and parcels excite me, like presents for a birthday.

09/23/2019

Demanding & Strict yet Sensual and Seductive. Most would say I am a suburban snob; I am elegant yet kinky with a twisted dark side. I carry Myself with poise and like a Lady, but at times cuss like a sailor and can whisper the naughtiest things to you as well as use strong commands that will bring you to your knees.

I enjoy the eroticism of B**M, the power exchange and the control I command over men. Its so easy to control men; I have been doing it for many years and am a natural Dominant which you will see as soon as we meet.

I find it humorous when I meet a submissive man how quickly he becomes erect in My presence, a clear indication that I am in control once the blood rushes from his brain to in-between his legs.

My experience in the Domination scene started at the age of 19 for Me, I had always loved manipulating men and found it easy to get what I wanted from them. I enjoyed being pampered, I enjoyed physically and mentally degrading submissives; using their minds and their body’s for My pure satisfaction and amusement thrilled Me beyond words and continues to this very day.

Assertive, aggressive, spunky, playful, seductive and kinky is everything you will find in Me, I assure you I AM different, you will not find Me forced into an act or a certain demeanor or behavior, everything about My persona as a Fem Domme is natural and not forced.

Whether you seek a sensual Fe**sh Session or an intense Domination experience, you will find Me extremely versatile and open-minded.


Physically:
For those obsessed with a Woman's Physique, I am a full figured Southern Woman who has been told time and time again that a possess a strikingly beautiful face, full lips and mesmerizing eyes. I am also complimented on My long legs and amazing porcelain complexion and soft smooth skin (for those lucky enough to get to touch Me).
Although I am a full figured Woman, I live a healthy and relatively active lifestyle, I take care of Myself from active work outs to My skin, nails and hair.
* Height: 5'5"
* Dress size 22
* Red short hair
* Green eyes
* Statuesque/Full figured Physique
* Shoe size 8.5 Boots 9

09/23/2019

09/23/2019

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