2026 Aids Memorial Quilt At BV

2026 Aids Memorial Quilt At BV Come out to see the Aids Memorial Quilt at Beyond Vanilla, Oct 1-4

I am very exited to announce our last persenter  Daddy Rod. Bio A native New Yorker, Daddy Rod is the co-founder of the ...
07/30/2026

I am very exited to announce our last persenter Daddy Rod.

Bio

A native New Yorker, Daddy Rod is the co-founder of the ONYX Mid-Atlantic Chapter, where he served as President, and later as Pledge Master. Rod has moderated and presented for a variety of Leather and Kink programs and events: he is known for his spanking classes and Beyond the Red Ribbon, the HIV/STI Prevention workshop developed specifically for the Leather and Kink lifestyle. Rod also co-founded and co-facilitates a monthly podcast, “Listen to Daddy” with his good friend and fellow Daddy, Rob Kreisinger Denk (Mr. Iowa Leather 2015). He is honored to have been the Keynote Speaker for the Leather Solidarity Collective UPRISE! Conference in 2024.

Rod is honored to have served the Leather community as Leatherman of Color 2011 and American Leatherman 2017. Rod is also an alumnus of the MTTA 2008 Masters’ Training. He has previously served as a judge for numerous contests. Rod is proud of winning the Pantheon of Leather Awards for Northeast Regional in 2014, and Man of the Year in 2018. Rod’s kink fetishes include spanking, ass play, flogging and fi***ng.

We Are Here, We've Always Been: An HIV Roundtable (for People Living with HIV ONLY):

Talking openly about HIV in the Leather community is an act of leadership, care, and accountability to one another. This roundtable for PLWHIV will provide a safe space for honest conversations, help break stigma, promote prevention and treatment, and reinforce the values of trust, respect, and informed consent that are central to the community. By sharing our experiences and supporting one another, we strengthen our community and ensure that no one has to face HIV in silence.
Friday, October 2nd, 10:00-11:30am

Beyond the Red Ribbon:

Sexually Transmitted Infections continue to impact many communities in our country, including the Leather and Kink community. But what conversations are we having to prevent its spread in the community? How do we stay safe as we negotiate our Kink Play and different relationships? "Beyond the Red Ribbon" is a facilitated discussion that will provide a forum for the community to explore and address these concerns.
Friday , October 2th, 3:00-4:30pm

Black Men and HIV:

HIV is a topic that rarely gets discussed publicly at Leather and Kink events. Beyond Vanilla will change that. As part of the AIDS Memorial Quilt series, Daddy Rod will share his experiences and observations about HIV from his perspective as a Black man who is an HIV activist and long-term survivor. In sharing his story, Daddy Rod hopes to encourage honest conversations, challenge misconceptions, and remind others that knowledge, compassion, and access to care can save lives.
Saturday, October 3rd, 1:00-2:30pm

Time to welcome  our next presenter  teaching in the quilt area  Finn Coy-Gresavage . They will be teaching their class ...
07/24/2026

Time to welcome our next presenter teaching in the quilt area Finn Coy-Gresavage . They will be teaching their class on Saturday Oct 2 @ 10am-1130am.

BIO
Finn Gerhardt is a leatherperson, bootblack, activist, performer and educator from the great state of Maryland. They teach classes ranging from Electro-Play and Sonophilia to Public Speaking and applying Theatrical Principles to Kink. Finn is currently serving as International Person of Leather 2026, where their platform, “Don’t Look Away,” emphasizes the importance of bearing witness in fighting propaganda and speaking truth to power. Finn is a proud Thaddy to their Boi, Matt, and always tries to leave the world a little shinier than they found it.

Workshop title
What is Remembered Lives: The Art and History of the AIDS Quilt

Description
"What is Remembered Lives" is the sentiment behind the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, also known as simply, "The AIDS Quilt". In this class, students will learn the history of the world's largest community art project; its origins, symbolism and impact. Students will learn the basic rules of etiquette when visiting a display of the quilt, and how specific quilt panels can be viewed via the National AIDS Memorial's digital quilt display.

Lets welcome our first presenter  Harley Blackman  as he teacher his class in the quilt room on Sunday at 1pm-230pmBio H...
07/21/2026

Lets welcome our first presenter Harley Blackman as he teacher his class in the quilt room on Sunday at 1pm-230pm

Bio Harley Blackman (He/Him) resides in Odessa, Texas. During his day, he diligently works in the oilfield. Harley’s unwavering passion lies in raising awareness about HIV/AIDS and establishing safe havens for individuals diagnosed with the virus and those affected by it. He is the founder of Team Friendly West Texas and the creator of the national work of art community, Bears. Harley embodies inclusivity to the utmost, consistently extending his support to everyone within his capacity. Although he may be a solitary individual, he demonstrates remarkable resilience and determination, akin to a cohesive team effort. No challenge is insurmountable, and no endeavor is too ambitious for him. Harley’s genuine nature is evident in his warm bear hugs and infectious smile.

Class description-
The misconceptions around HIV are numerous. The disease has had formidable stigmatizing beliefs about people living with HIV (PLWH) since its spike in cases in the early 1980s, marking it a global pandemic. This class is meant to educate about the history, stigmas, and misconceptions of HIV, as well as the prior disease phases it was classified and labeled as. By speaking out and teaching about this virus, we can reclaim the power to own and declassify HIV as a weapon of fear. We can empower the public with knowledge on risks and factual evidence of how it can be prevented or spread. With this information, we can slow the spread of damaging opinions by sharing verifiable testing prevention and treatment knowledge.

We have a lot of fun things happening here is a basic schedule for the weekend. Keep an eye out for what classes and pre...
07/12/2026

We have a lot of fun things happening here is a basic schedule for the weekend. Keep an eye out for what classes and presenters we will be having coming soon

Will be posting information soon. So keep your eyes open for updates.
06/15/2026

Will be posting information soon. So keep your eyes open for updates.

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1700 Rodeo Drive
Mesquite, TX
75149

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Thursday 1pm - 8pm
Friday 9am - 7pm
Saturday 9am - 7pm
Sunday 9am - 3pm

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