04/24/2026
Ok I’ve been meditating, but seriously I actually have been, which is funny because we all know I’m basically a transcendental meditator for like three days at a time and then I forget it exists, but lately I’ve been kicking back in my BackJack actually doing it and there’s this feeling that keeps coming up, like something shifted and nobody really stopped to name it. We built things around connection, around showing up, around being part of something that didn’t need to be documented to matter, and then somewhere along the way the documentation became the point. Not all at once and not intentionally, just slowly. Attention became the metric, visibility became the proof, sharing became the confirmation that it was real.
And to be fair it worked, it worked so well that entire industries formed around it, systems got better, tools got sharper, everyone got faster at turning moments into something consumable, and in the middle of all that something else happened. We got really good at performing the feeling of being connected without always being connected, and that’s the part that’s hard to explain but easy to feel, because it doesn’t look broken from the outside, it looks successful, it looks active, it looks like something is happening, but if you sit with it for a second you can feel the difference.
Before Field Trip, I remember doing events where we actually took the phones away, not as a gimmick but because of something Oprah said about being present and actually being where you are, and people didn’t really know what to do at first, but then something would click and the room would change. Conversations got longer, eye contact came back, moments stretched out instead of getting captured and moved past. It felt simple, almost obvious, but also rare.
What’s interesting right now is watching things start to swing back, smaller rooms, real conversations, less polish, more presence, not as a trend but more like a correction, like people remembering what they were actually looking for in the first place, and it makes you realize some things weren’t wrong, they were just early.