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Soft Butch, Bristol (2026)

17/03/2026

🌸NE WEEK TO GO BEFORE WE MELT INTO EACH OTHER'S HEARTS AND FACES AGAIN. Smooch smooch dance dance love love destroy fascism joy as resisDance and so much more 🌸

85% tickets gone — link in bio 🎟️

Technically one week to go tomorrow but I just wanted to show you how beautiful you all are tog@y ;)

Photos by .ratt

[Photos descriptions: All shot in an indoor club environment. The decor is the people. Gorgeous Qveer humans laugh, love, dance, kiss, hug. Shaved heads, dyed mullets, Afro hair, frosted tips. Bright eyes burning with connection. Highlights include a human wearing a T-shirt with text that reads: "Museum of Tr@nslology", a person with their face playfully and lovingly buried in another person breasts, two gender non conforming masc cuties holding each other with eyes and smiles wide open.]

13/02/2026

25 MARCH COMING 🆙 FAST and we will be joined by a fckg iconic guest performer who repped the UK at the damn Olympics (!!!):

is a movement artist working across theatre, commercial and underground dance scenes. Specialising in Breaking and Floorwork, Shortbread was an Elite Squad member of Breaking GB & represented the UK on the Olympic Route as well as representing on the Redbull BCone stages over the years. Starting their dance journey with Hip Hop styles, Emma went on to train in Contemporary Dance Theatre at Laban. Emma has performed & dance captained with ZooNation (Message In A Bottle) and Olivier-award winning UK Hip Hop Theatre companies Boy Blue (REDD) and Far From the Norm (Union Black) among others. Internationally Emma has worked with Ish Dance Collective (Thor) in The Netherlands and with Passing The Crown & Rapsody in the USA in 2025. Emma has collaborated as both dancer & choreographer with brands such as Adidas, Levi’s and Nike, and appeared in print for ASOS, I Am Hip-Hop Magazine, DIVA and the Hip Hop Dance Almanac.

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[Image description: Black and white photo of Shortbread, a masc presenting person with short hair staring at the camera mid-breakdance movement. Text at the top left reads "Shortbread" in pink with light blue and pink splashes dotted around the text.]

15/12/2025

💈 ALERT ALERT MY GNC HAWT POLE INCOMING 💈

is guest performing on 29/01 at ! Colleyna, has been refining their craft on the pole for over 10 years and has danced and performed all over the world. Standing proud at 6"1' with a shaved head and an attitude, she qu**rs gender on every stage she's on. If you like sensual rage, a seductive stare, long legs and a six pack, don't miss this unforgettable performance.

And then it's yours truly for a whole set, i've missed playing for you for the whole nyte 😈

HALF TICKETS GONE • link in bio

[Image description: Outdoors, white diffuse cloudy sky in the background. Colleyna, a tall and slender Black human with hair mostly buzzcut but a few bleached curls remaining right at the front, stands tall. They show their profile to us, gazing into the distance. One of their hands pulls one side of their trousers hip band down slightly to reveal the top of their black underwear. Solid as rock abs, pierced belly button, power dripping.]

04/12/2025

🤍DE TO QVEER L🤍VE. Chosen family. This is what we look like. The world may be burning, but our broken open hearts and determination to adore each other as well as the wider universe is and will continue to be the balm. Keep on loving.

"You, you, you, you, you
And furthermore, you
And another thing, you
I can't believe the sound of my laughter when you're in front of me
I can't believe the peace I feel in your company
When did it happen?
Happiness
I thought I knew love, but I never knew this"
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Next up: 29/01 at . Tickets link in bio.

[Images descriptions: 400 Qveer humans in a club, full of love and consensual of course touch for one another. Face held down into a lover's breasts. Ecstatic smiles and one to one hugs in the sea of bodies. Many, many, many precious kisses on lips exchanges. Close up on tiddiez covered by a top that reads: "I'm a slvt for my gay little boifriend". Scenes of adoration and never ending supply of awe, softness and whimsy sprinkled across the room.]

04/12/2025

SOFT BUTCH ANNI PHOTO DUMP 2/3 🎞️

QVEER BODIES. MOVEMENT. JOY AS RESISDANCE. Badass angel superstar DJ here we go got us SWEATING. Praise be to them for the rhythms they gifted us. And check out all of y'all. Dancing like life is a hurricane and the only thing left to do is to let go into it. You are so beautiful my face hurts from smiling.

Next up: 29/01 at . Tickets link in bio.

[Images descriptions: Non Binary and Qveer bodies united in movement on and off stage. Trans masc white human throws his bright orange mullet back with curved back bent over. White Non Binary human with bright orange bowl cut points at camera from behind the DJ decks with bright beam of smile on their face. Non conforming skankers with tops off and bass face on dance knees popping up. A group of gorgeous Beings all stood in a line backs to front dancing with soft love. A close up of a dreamy Black woman dancing with eyes closed and hands delicately places above her face. Multiple crowd shots with general vibe being pure unadulterated joy and expression in the dance. Fingers and fists up in the air in power. Hips and knees twisting in delight. Smiles and laughter dancing on faces. 400 wonderful humans moving like one organism.]

04/12/2025

SOFT BUTCH 3 YEAR ANNI PHOTO DUMP 1/3 🎞️

This absolute legend . Wow. Thank you. Go follow them and . And big claps for .stefelle who captured these moments.

Next one: 29/01 at . Tickets link in bio.

[Images descriptions: 1. Close up on a bent-over non binary butt clad with black silky sequined trousers. A hand pops out between the legs holding a red rose. 2. Macho Mei an East Asian Non Binary human dessed in not very much at all except a black leather chest harness holds a white masc person's face in their hand in a domminant fashion. The person' whose face is being held is sat on a chair, head bent back. 3. Following on from previous image, Macho Mei with their back to the other person, mid-take off of their black jacket, eyes closed. 4. Macho Mei in black leather harness lies on the stage floor, a seductive smile on their lips. Thick silver chain around their neck and security high-vis straps around their thighs. 5. Macho Mei bent over forward, a$$ out, a hand reaches between their legs. 6. Macho Mei on all fours on the edge of the stage, one hand reaching out to a Non Binary shaved-headed crowd members whose very excited face speaks a thousand words.]

09/11/2025

3 YEARS OF US 🕯️🕯️🕯️ Togay is Soft Butch's official three year birthGay and damn it doesn't get any g@ÿer than this. And when i say gǎy i mean not just gäy, i mean BUTCH, FEMME, Q***R, BI, PAN, NON BINARY, TRÁNŚ, EACH AND EVERY FLAVOUR AND NUANCE THAT OUR COMMUNITY BRINGS. Here's 20 pics from the archives ❤️❤️❤️

The fascist gvmts that be may keep on melting hell holes into the tapestries of LIFE, but one thing is for certain: we will keep on showing up with healing balm and unmatched joy as resisdance. Fckg proud of us. We all know that none of us are free until we're all free so £400 of this month's event tickets sales will go to P@lest!ne + Tr@ns crowdfunders (will share receipts on story).

Thank you to the venues' programmers, front of house, tech + security teams who have welcomed us so far: extra special gratitude to our OG pad , , , with legends

03/10/2025

GET YOUR SHRIEK ON 🥵 is coming for us on 20/11 gaaaaaah:::::

Macho Mei is a 10/10 blend of androgyny, drag, and burlesque, bringing slick moves, sharp style, and don’t-touch-but-watch-me baddie energy to every stage. A Draggies: Born Naked finalist and member of and Soho School of Burlesque, they’ve turned up the heat at RedHot100, Gal Pals, Butch Please, Mighty Hoopla, Boomtown, and now: Soft Butch. Expect gender play, smouldering looks, and performances that seduce, subvert, and leave you breathless.

💥 20/11 at ~ tickets link in bio, half gone already 💥

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[Video description: Sneak peek of a spicy hot strip tease performance by Macho Mei, an East Asian enby human with a buzzcut and deliciously masc drag make up. They take their top off one sleeve at a time revealing their chest, and then turn their back to us and snap off their trousers revealing jockstraps.]

23/09/2025

SOFT BUTCH THREE YEAR BIRTHGAY 🎂 BACK FOR SOME THEY/THEM MAYHEM ON 20/11 at . All enby line-up. All shades of butchness and androgyny dripping off the walls. WILDLY GASSED to be bringing and on as guest performers for this one GAHHH 🫠 You, me, every body, on the dance floor. Last one until 2026, let’s send off 2025 proper good. Cvnt wait.

Loving reminders cos why not: Soft Butch is a somatics-infused night celebrating all butchness, for Women, Non Binary and Trans people to dance freely together. No drinks and no phones on stage + invitation to extend this to the dance floor (more about this in our FAQs highlight).

🎟️ tickies link in bio 🎟️

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[Images description: 1. Indoor, purple-pink diffuse lighting. Headshot of Macho Mei, an East Asian non binary human with a buzzcut and drag king make up. They wear a security uniform, white shirt, black vest which they hold open with both hands, and black trousers. 2. Outdoor, wide angle shot. Coren, a white non binary human with short bright orange hair living it up on stage behind the decks in an outdoors environment. They're giving us prime bass face, one fist pumping the air and one foot off the floor. They're surrounded by beaut dancers on stage. 3. Indoor, green lighting and diffuse smoke. Lexx, a white non binary human, concetrating behind the DJ decks. They have a buzzcut, are topless and wear a black leather chest harness.]

18/09/2025

🚨 MY LOVES, WE HAVE A LAST MIN SPONTANEOUSLY JUICY SURPRISE FOR YOU AND WE NEED YOUR SUPPORT TO MAKE IT SLAY TO THE MAX 🚨

+ + are descending upon in Landan on FriGAY 26/09 yes that is next week when I said last minute i meant tit 💁🏻 THE TIME TO SUPPORT FLINTA NIGHTLIFE IS NOW and supporting is as easy as this:

Will you be in London on 26/09?
✅ -> GET A TICKET VIA LINK IN BIO NOW AND COME SWEAT WITH US. Free 22:00-23:00 entry (limited avail, book now) / £10 after 23:00.
❌ -> TELL YOUR LONDON FRIENDS TO COME. Spreading the word to a handful of friends goes a long way - send them this post!

For this event we're opening it up to all, but as usual celebrating butchness and centering Women, Non Binary and Trans people 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Big thank you to for linking us up on this one ❤️

LET'S FCKG GO.

11/09/2025

Closing scenes of the Soft Butch takeover at papped by the one and only 🤍 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸

So much love for my dearest co-conspirators who made this night what it was .play .fever . Cooking up disinhibited dancing, meaningful presence and community with you is an honour.

Free P@lestine. Tr@ns is beautiful. Cis allies, we need to be 10x louder NOW. Qu33r family - proud of us beyond words.

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[Images descriptions: All in a dark indoor club setting with blue and purple laser-like lighting. Image 1: Six gender-bending humans shout on stage. Buzzcuts, orange-dyed hair, armpit hair, rage and love. Image 2: Orange-hair and orange trousers enby cutie holds Pride flag on stage. Image 3: Enby buzzcut human with their topless back to us with their hands on top of their head. Other gender-bendy humans dance on either side of them. Epic laser-lights above them sloce through the image.]

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