14/04/2026
HIS & HERS RELATIONSHIPS GLOBAL FAMILY
ARE YOU AWARE THAT LOVE CAN BE KILLED?
BELOW ARE FEW KILLERS OF LOVE AMONG MANY OTHERS
1) LACK OF COMMITMENT.
There is no good relationship or marriage without intentional commitment from both parties. If love must grow in that place, both spouses must be committed in working it out. Invest your time and more. When it is on one side, love becomes a punishment and can only be managed, not enjoyed. Just give it a time, love will be dead.
2). LACK OF COMMUNICATION
The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies. Bonding can easily collapse here. You can improve your love with constant and quality communication.
3). ENDLESS FIGHTS
Constant fightïng will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart even when you are meant for each other.
4) . LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES
Yes, you two might be in different careers, different cities and countries and might even have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade. Find something to do together. It can be prayers and more.
5) LACK OF S*X
For the married, lack of s*x is one major killer of love in marriage. For the unmarried yet on talking stage to forever, there should also be a time forever s*x related talks not to satisfy your emotions but for educational or knowledge purpose. By that you can know the s*xual expectations and needs of the person you are about to marry especially close to your wedding date. It must be for spiritually mature spouses and boundaries must be set.
6) TOO MUCH REQUESTS
This is another killer of love. Especially on the talking stage, If you make your relationship full of request especially financial request; give me, give me, before you know it, the other partner becomes burdend about it and starts loosing interest in hanging out or talking with you and by doing so, you are suffocating the existence of love among you. You make him scared of dates with you since it will always end with your request of this or that. You can still package your self, manage until he or she becomes yours. Don't make him scared of how loose you may be in the area of family finance. Too much asking is so dangerous to love, no matter who is asking. When this request out weighs the solution you supply for the emotional needs of the relationship, fading away of love is inevitable.
7). THIRD PARTIES
You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse.
8). LACK OF APPRECIATION
The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse.
9Love doesn't just grow. It needs intentional and consistent watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in efforts, it will gradually fade away instead of getting better.). UNFORGIVENESS
Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time.
10) DISTANCE
Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple
11). WORK
When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences
(12) . BLAME GAME
When you two keep exchanging blames and finding faults in each other, you will begin to dislike each other's company. Even if you are meant for each other.
13) LACK OF EFFORT
Love doesn't just grow. It needs intentional and consistent watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in efforts, it will gradually fade away instead of getting better.
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