15/09/2024
In 2019, I set myself a quiet goal: to reach a level of fitness and mental resolve where I could run a marathon whenever I wanted. Today, despite floods of tears at Sydney Harbour Bridge, running the TCS Sydney Marathon amidst the heat and hills, I’m humbled to say that I think I've just about reached that goal.
Running a marathon whenever you like might sound impossible, but it's honestly not. It's about building the strength in your body and the resilience in your mind to tackle any challenge head-on. It’s about those early mornings, those small steps, and the belief that you can go further than you ever thought possible. One day at a time, one mile at a time, you build not just the endurance to finish a marathon but the freedom to choose when to take on that challenge again. The feeling of crossing that finish line, knowing you've conquered the distance on your own terms, is worth every drop of sweat and every aching muscle, I promise.
To see elite athletes glide across the tarmac towards me on the half marathon turn was a moment I will never, ever forget. Absolutely incredible. Brimin Kipkorir Misoi (02:06:17), Chalu Deso Gelmisa (02:08:01), and Felix Kiptoo Kirwa (02:08:17) moving with such grace and speed was a truly humbling experience.
If you're just starting your running journey, remember this: you're only ever racing against yourself. It doesn't matter how fast or how far you go; what matters is that you start. Every runner begins with that first step, and every run is a victory. Set small, achievable goals and celebrate every milestone. And don't take it so seriously that you forget all the wonderful memories and friendships that running can create. Whether you’re sprinting at the front or jogging at your own pace, some of the best moments happen on those runs where you’re laughing, chatting, and simply enjoying the journey.
Personally, I run in quadrants, each side comprising 5km, so 4 sides to pass in a half marathon, 8 in a full, leaving that final bit at the end for a moment of gratitude. Today, every one of those 8 sides was dedicated to a loved one, and let me tell you, some stretches those loved ones were unrelenting. But it serves as a powerful reminder: you can achieve the seemingly impossible if you break it into manageable (5k) parts, bit by bit, step by step. Celebrating each milestone acheived.
This journey, for me, like life itself, a stark reminder to the importance of mental resolve. I'm NOT a runner. Physical strength can only take you so far; it's the mind that pushes you through the toughest moments. When every muscle screams to stop, when the hills feel like mountains, and the finish line seems a world away, it’s your mental strength that keeps you going. It’s about believing in the power of your spirit to overcome any obstacle, no matter how daunting. The mind is where the true race is run, where limits are shattered, and dreams are made reality.
The course was a feast for the eyes, taking us through some of Sydney's most iconic sights. We started with the exhilarating run across the Sydney Harbour Bridge, with sweeping views of the Sydney Opera House and the glistening harbour. We navigated through the historic Rocks District, looped around the vibrant Circular Quay, and ran alongside the serene Royal Botanic Gardens, Darling Harbour, Hyde Park, and stretches along the stunning coastline offered moments of beauty that fuelled every step. Finally, crossing the finish line at the steps of the iconic Sydney Opera House was a moment of pure triumph.
But today’s run was about more than just completing a marathon. I ran in support of Kevin Webber, a true inspiration and a beacon of hope. Ten years ago, Kevin received a diagnosis of incurable T4 prostate cancer and was told he might have just 2 years to live. Against all odds, he's celebrating his 10-year 'cancerversary' this November. And to mark this incredible milestone, he's taking on his own monumental challenge—running from his home to the The Royal Marsden Hospital and back 10 times within 24 hours. That’s over 160 kilometres, each lap a tribute to the hospital that helped save his life and to the people who supported him.
Kevin is raising funds for The Royal Marsden Cancer Charity, which supports countless cancer patients. His journey is a powerful reminder of resilience, courage, and the strength to keep moving forward, no matter the odds. He’s asking for just £10—a small contribution that represents each year he's defied the odds since his diagnosis.
I'm asking if you can help support Kevin's mission. If you can spare a tenner, please donate at:
https://www.justgiving.com/page/kevin-webber-ten-years
Together, let's support this incredible cause and the hospital that gives so many the chance to keep chasing their dreams.
Thank you to everyone who has donated to support Kevin! I'm not quite at the 42 tenners yet, so if you can spare a quid or two, please dig deep for this very special man and his incredible mission. Every little bit helps and makes a difference. Let's help Kevin reach his goal and continue to inspire others.
DS x
Help Kevin Webber raise money to support The Royal Marsden Cancer Charity