The Big Gay Collective LLC

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05/28/2026

Update: Where have I been?? Moving. AGAIN 🫩 After moving Big Gay and Wilde Lavender out of my apartment, I had way too much space and cost (think: cooling two rooms I never go into). So I'm moving from my 2 bed, 2 bath to a 1 bed, 1 bath.

That's where I've been! If you have sent a message or an email or put in an order...wellp...that's all been on the back burner this week. I will try to get orders out Friday, though, and catch up with all of you.

Thanks for your patience. I'm excited to be done moving for a while...I hope 🤞

05/20/2026

Feeling two faced? Maybe like you're always looking for the next best thing? Perhaps you feel like you're caught in the middle of two opposite ideas?

It's Gemini ♊️ season! For those non Geminis out there, get ready for emotional whiplash and always being told you're wrong.

Of course, if you're someone who is pretty funny, curious about almost everything, and flexibly stubborn then this season is definitely for you!

Enjoy Gemini season smelling like pears 🍐 and champagne 🍾

A Big Pair is fresh and clean, springy and fruity, sparkly and fun! Find it at thebiggaycollective.com or when you see us at our next in-person market.

05/14/2026

As a small business person there are horrors around every corner. These are just a few of ours. There's no use in trying to hide from them. They'll always catch up to you! 😵

So let's try this! We'll post BOTH Big Gay Collective aaaaaand Wilde Lavender schedules to both profiles so you can get ...
04/29/2026

So let's try this! We'll post BOTH Big Gay Collective aaaaaand Wilde Lavender schedules to both profiles so you can get a complete picture of where we'll be. And if that doesn't work? 🤷‍♂️ We'll try something else!

Here's the thing: we don't want you to miss out on any of the events we are a part of. We choose our events VERY carefully and want to tailor them to what we think you'll enjoy, as well 😀

This month starts with Wilde Lavender at First Fridays. Then we travel to Iowa for Tulip Time in Pella 🌷 If you've never been to Tulip Time, come and see us there! Don't forget your wooden shoes 😆

We'll be at Crossroads Flea again this month, and then the Moon Market is back! This time on the Rock Island Bridge 🥳 Have you been there yet? We haven't and are very excited to experience the night life.

Finally, an annual favorite, KC Folk Fest in Washington Square Park (NOT the new home of the Royals 🙄). Come enjoy music and entertainment and food. It's always a fun market!

Hopefully, we'll see you this month! Look for The Big Gay Collective sign or the Wilde Lavender sign. You won't be able to miss us!

04/25/2026

Did I come to San Antonio just for a bit? No. Welll...🤔 no. Definitely not. Did I squee with excitement when I put together that I would be here for April 25 and could commit to a bit at the Alamo? You betcha. Made the 12 hours of driving over 2 days TOTALLY worth it 😆

I hope you're having the perfect day, and don't forget your light jacket!

04/22/2026

📢 If you missed it, that website is: thebiggaycollective.com and it will be back tomorrow (Wednesday, April 22)!

We've worked our already-bony fingers even more to the bone trying to get this overhaul finished as quickly as possible.

It's even bigger 🤯 It's even gayer 🏳️‍🌈 And now The Big Gay Collective and Wilde Lavender Supply Co. look more like sisters than strangers from different planets 👽

To thank you for your patience, you'll be able to take 20% off your entire order on everything on the website, Wednesday 4/22 through Sunday 4/26. Use code WELCOMEBACK at checkout and you'll be all set.

Don't forget if you're in the KC area, you can pick up your order, too if you use code FREEPICKUP.

We're so excited for you to see what we've done to make thebiggaycollective.com even more enjoyable to shop for all your favorite smelly items!

04/12/2026

We're not suggesting anything and even if we were suggesting something we wouldn't even know what we were suggesting! I think that about covers it.

But yeah...always safety first! At least get out of the paper warehouse first before using any of our amazing candles.

Who says anarchy shouldn't smell good? It's definitely not us. We're all for burning down the patriarchy and oligarchy.

Safely, of course 🔥

04/11/2026

It's National James Day! And if you really love me, you'll come celebrate with me in Weston 😆 It's a cool, spring day and perfect for being inside and smelling all the cozy smells 🌷

Don't forget, if you want to shop online, find all your favorites at wildelavender.com while we work on thebiggaycollective.com

04/11/2026

Don't know what to get someone for their 1st anniversary? Traditionally, it's paper. But today it's stained glass and candles!

Find the flowers on on this springy day in Weston! Let's celebrate Adrienne together 🥳

Today only! 10a-6p. See you soon!

04/01/2026

MORE BIG NEWS!...(that just happens to be on April Fools Day but is not at all a joke 😬)

We are getting a face-lift. Well..."we" aren't. Our website is! In an effort to simplify how you shop on thebiggaycollective.com, we're taking it offline for a month so we can completely overhaul it from top to bottom - and of course, the vers and sides as well.

That means you won't be able to get to thebiggaycollective.com for now. HOWEVER, you already have an alternative to get all your favorite smellies and more on wildelavendersupplyco.com. Or wildelavender.com if you're nasty.

Everything is at plus all the things that are ONLY at Wilde Lavender, like lotion and refills and spray scents and all the other stuff you know and love.

We're not saying goodbye to thebiggaycollective.com forever, just an extremely necessary - AND TEMPORARY - blip in the road.

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