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There are days you mark and days you remember. Sometimes they coincide. Tomorrow, June 30, marks the fifth anniversary o...
06/30/2025

There are days you mark and days you remember. Sometimes they coincide. Tomorrow, June 30, marks the fifth anniversary of my last day as a member of a law firm. (I had resigned from the partnership effective April 30, but stayed on to the end of June to finishing a client project.) The intervening five years have been fun, fascinating, exciting, transformative. Retirement didn't work very well for me, but Retoolment has been terrific. I thought I would repost the announcement I made about that momentous change, and which elicited the most responses I have ever received to a social media post. Happy transition day to me and I recommend that the rest of you find a way to Retool as soon as it is possible:

"Taking a cue from the Sussex Brats, I have decided that the time has come to step back and take some time for myself. On January 13th, I notified my partners at Tucker Ellis that I am retiring from the firm, effective April 30. I decided to do so while I am still young [enough] and healthy [enough] to do some of the things I have been putting off for years. The outlines of my third act are still under construction, but I expect it to be fun, exciting, and fulfilling. I have a non-profit and a couple of businesses to run, a ranch to operate, speeches to give, strategies to share, and much more to do. Stay tuned for more news as life develops."

P.S. Here's a photo of the hay meadow to demonstrate that there is life after law firm.
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The famous model and author Cynthia Manion loves Lily and the gang. If you don't have your own copies of the series, pic...
04/17/2025

The famous model and author Cynthia Manion loves Lily and the gang. If you don't have your own copies of the series, pick them up and start reading. They aren't just for children!

If you don't have copies of the latest Frogville Quest books, take a look at my friend, the model Cynthia Manion. She's ...
04/17/2025

If you don't have copies of the latest Frogville Quest books, take a look at my friend, the model Cynthia Manion. She's one of Lily's biggest fans!

Happy Saturday, everyone.  Your missive today comes to you from a hotel room at the LA Airport.  The time difference bet...
04/05/2025

Happy Saturday, everyone. Your missive today comes to you from a hotel room at the LA Airport. The time difference between my body clock and the local clock means I have been up and restless since daylight. I saw clock times this morning that I usually only see once a day—toward sunset, not sunrise.

I clicked on the television and realized that today was Cartoon Day. Back when I was a kid and there was no such thing as a cartoon channel, Saturday was cartoon day back then. Never a morning person, cartoon day was the only day of the week when I could pop out of bed in the morning. Some personality traits never change.

The seminar that brought me to this charming hotel at the airport is a marketing bootcamp—a training seminar for business owners and entrepreneurs to improve their interface with the world, which in turn should improve their bottom line. Time management figures high in the list of topics for speakers because consistency and focus translate into increased chances to increase profitability.

There is actually a connection between cartoon day and time management. Having a schedule, a to-do list, and a reliable calendar system all contribute to time management. My childhood lack of cartoon distractions on six days of the week meant I could focus on schoolwork, homework, or simply work back in those days. Our parents limited the cartoon calendar focus to less than four hours a week. I strongly suspect they would have done the same even if there had been more opportunities for us to access that time wasting set of programs. We didn’t really need self-discipline at home; we had parental discipline instead.

As adults, we don’t have that parental discipline so that responsibility falls on ourselves. I am not as good at time management as I should be. I could use some of that discipline to change my personal internet addition to news when I first wake up each morning! I am hoping to apply some of the lessons taught over the weekend to improve my own productivity and give me more focus on projects when I work on them.

We’ll see how that goes. I have another day of bootcamp training today and a ton of client work for the upcoming week. I decided to turn off the cartoons and do my missive a day early. That’s my attempt at time management. We will see how that works for the upcoming week.

Enjoy your own cartoon day. I’m headed out to take a short walk before a day of training. Talk to you again soon.

Sharla Frost

P.S. Here's a photo of my friend Gina St George providing a musical explanation of how to do organizational processes. Bootcamp fosters creativity!

Rockstar Marketing BootCamp in L.A., April 4–5!  🔥 She's fierce in the courtroom—and on the stage.🎤 Catch  at Rockstar M...
03/31/2025

Rockstar Marketing BootCamp in L.A., April 4–5! 🔥 She's fierce in the courtroom—and on the stage.
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01/22/2025

Excited to announce that I'll be speaking at the Dallas eWomen's Network event on February 20! Huge thanks to Toni Caruso for the gracious invitation. If you're in North Texas and seeking inspiration, join us for a fantastic event. I'll be sharing insights on "Law and the Entrepreneur," offering valuable perspectives from real-world experiences.
Learn more about the event here: https://www.ewomennetwork.com/chap.../north-dallas-plano-530
See you there!

Check out this month's edition of Rockstar Speaker Magazine. I'm planning to spend more time speaking this year:
01/05/2025

Check out this month's edition of Rockstar Speaker Magazine. I'm planning to spend more time speaking this year:

JANUARY 2025 - ISSUE #3 MAGAZINE NATIONAL MENTORING MONTH ISSUE SHARLA J. FROST TOP 10 LIST REASONS TO HIRE A MENTOR 7 SPEAKER TIPS: START A MENTORING PROGRAM JANUARY 2025 HIGHLIGHTED KEYNOTE SPEAKER A POWERHOUSE SPEAKER FOR CORPORATE CONFERENCES COVER STORY:

Here are the photos from the Christmas Market and the Boat Parade.  The children were adorable, as always, and Santa and...
12/10/2024

Here are the photos from the Christmas Market and the Boat Parade. The children were adorable, as always, and Santa and Mrs. Claus were terrific. Merry Christmas.

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Come check out the Christmas market and pick up some lunch. Three different food trucks!
12/07/2024

Come check out the Christmas market and pick up some lunch. Three different food trucks!

12/04/2024

The Christmas market does not begin at 4:00 am. No surprise there, huh? The event shows to start at 9:00 on my system, but posts as 4:00. FB has been a pain lately. Still hope to see all of you on Saturday.

October 24, 2024: Anniversary DayAt 9:00 in the morning on this date in 1994, we made the move–and I still have the t-sh...
10/24/2024

October 24, 2024: Anniversary Day

At 9:00 in the morning on this date in 1994, we made the move–and I still have the t-shirt to memorialize it. That morning saw the opening of Powers & Frost, the law firm I founded with Jim Powers. My sister Gwen was our first associate and, later, our first partner. We had a couple of contract lawyers, a few paralegals, a receptionist/business manager, and one secretary. We made rent and payroll on my credit card for the first couple of months. Jim had clients, you see, and I had credit. What an amazing ride it turned out to be.

In the initial phase, Jim was my rock star, and I was the stage manager. We kept him in trial as much as possible, while I ran the office. I had no business training. Each day was a learning experience. We found a banker that would give us a line of credit–the conservative kind where your debt is paid off the top of whatever money you bring in and you borrow again to cover any shortfall. That type of forced business moderation saved us in those early days.

Clients finally began to recognize my trial abilities, too. In not too many years, they began to view us as fungible. They didn’t really care whether they got Jim or me–just so long as either Powers or Frost would show up for trial.

That was exhilarating. It was also exhausting. All those nights on the road in cities around the country lost their glitter as the years passed. Then, tort reform roared through Texas and the inevitable march toward closure began. We had as many as 49 lawyers when tort reform passed, and we were as small as 8 when the time came for us to all decamp to a big national firm. I stayed there for a bit before moving to a different firm from which I ultimately retired a few years later.

Regardless of where I practiced, Jim always remained “my partner.” I didn’t realize for years that the term “partner” meant something different than what I meant. I meant business partner. And we still have either lunch or dinner every time we are both in the same city. We didn’t share all those highs and lows for nothing.

My favorite funny misunderstanding story comes from a client dinner, probably twenty years ago. Jim and I had just been hired by one of the world’s largest companies to do trial work for them. The inhouse lawyers and a group of their senior outside counsel took us to a private, fancy, very expensive dinner in New York. There was one other woman in the room, a mid-level associate of the national coordinating counsel. Everyone else was an old white man of prestigious background, most of whom we didn’t know at all and none of whom we knew well. As the evening progressed and the exquisite wine flowed generously, various people began to give toasts. One was to the in-house lawyer in charge and his extreme intellect. One was to an outside lawyer who was praised for his talent and ability to save the company from difficult business disputes. Jim was inspired to join in the toasts. He stood up, raised his glass, and gave a toast to me–” the woman with whom I've had the most successful relationship of my life.”

I groaned.
The assembled crowd simultaneously all arched an eyebrow and swiveled their heads to stare at me. I whispered to him, “I’m going to kill you.” Then, I smiled at them as though I had no idea what they were thinking. I knew what he meant. He meant a successful business relationship. However, as I explained to him the next morning on the flight home, no one else in that room knew what he meant. “Oh, they didn’t think THAT,” he said. “Oh, yes they did,” I replied.

But his heart was in the right place, and I would have to agree that he was the man with whom I had the most successful BUSINESS relationship in my life.

I’m glad we made the move. Happy Anniversary to us–even if we aren’t still the dynamic duo and don’t still have a firm. Jim is happily retired. And I’m happily…. whatever I am.

Enjoy your Thursday, everyone. Give a toast to the person in your life who was your most successful business relationship–just be sure to include the modifier. People’s eyebrows will rise otherwise.

Sharla

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