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05/10/2025

SINGLE MOMS LISTEN!!!

You can not threaten a single mom with a break up because her heart was broken already before she met you, she was just trying to see if she could manage you in the aim of her affairs in her life so it's a privilege to date her so you cannot say oh I can break up with you at anytime . A single mother is tougher than you think , she's not a vegetable , she's not easy like that, if she accommodates you into her life she's seen the worst life can ever offer . If you ever threaten a single mother with a break up she might even leave before you make up your mind to leave her I'm talking about single mother with cores and values not just any type of single mother. A single mother with cores values doesn't see you as a destiny helper no no neither are you doing her a favor. You are the one who will benefits from the blessing of a single mother if you have genuine intentions and treat her right 💯💯💯💯

02/10/2025

NEVER PLAY GAMES WITH A WOMAN WHO ISN'T AFRAID TO BE ALONE.

She’s already survived nights without someone to hold her, days without a call, and seasons with no support. She has learnt to wipe her own tears, fix her own problems, & protect her PEACE. She doesn’t settle for breadcrumbs, mixed signals, or half hearted love. She knows being ALONE is better than chaos disguised as love.

You can’t manipulate her with silence or win her with temporary affection. She has built a life that doesn’t need validation, she’s already whole. So when you play games, you’re not confusing her, you’re showing her you’re NOT ready for her love. & the moment she sees you’re wasting her time, she won’t argue, beg, or chase. She’ll WALK AWAY, quietly, gracefully, back to her peace.

She loves by CHOICE, not out of need. & if you’re not adding to her life, she won’t hesitate to SUBTRACT you from it....

31/08/2025

# ...
I and some well meaning Nigerians advised you through our platforms, but you kept doing all these.
And you claim you are bereaved, cheated on and helpless.
But right now, it doesn't seem you are.

Firstly, You claimed you have a big platform, voice and bigger bloggers...Then why did you bother to reach out to Verydarkblackman? Is it to tarnish his image or you were sent to bring him down?

Secondly, Was the interview necessary? If you needed to talk, you could have done it with your platform. Yeah!
How dare you call VDM a manipulator and clout chaser? Just like that!

Suddenly, You not even bothered about your sister again, instead you are online making irrelevant posts and videos.
Amidst the challenge before you.
The news of your sister having children as been out there for couple of days.
It was NEVER a secret.
A lot of people have read about it on the internet, so what is the big deal if VDM said it?
Why do you want to cover that side of her life?
Is it a crime to have children?

Can you see that you are the REAL LIAR here.
Thank God you also said you formulated the response you gave VDM concerning the reps from Dangote.
That shows who you really are.

Listen Phyna, You are an ingrate, so rude, arrogant, impatient and mannerless. No matter what transpired, you should have gone this length. Verydarkblackman only extended love and support just like he does to other victims.
This display of ingratitude from you would only scare helpers away from you.
Go and amend your ways.
And you owe Verydarkblackman and well meaning Nigerians apology.

WE ARE WITH YOU VERYDARKBLACKMAN. GOD WILL CONTINUE TO EXPOSE EVERY PRETENDERS AROUND YOU. AMEN

30/08/2025

According to Verydarkblackman the president of the ratal movement, my hero has given all of you that has a big platform the opportunity to also help humanity since you all feel it's content and clout chasing so that everyone can also make this money 😂😂😂 and I think it a very good idea but then I remember native doctor Paul ezike and deeone when they were boosting of helping lil smart 😂😂😂😂😂 only one case o non of them could chase that cloud well and get justice 😂😂😂😂😂 Na so them wash hand comot from the case and left the boy stranded, if you think it's easy run am we go support you cause we need more content creators of this nature at least the country will be better small but them no fit run am you no way, one their hands no clean secondly them no go fit use their money do watin no go give them interest 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Na only vdm fit chest am with him full chest and heart cause he is doing it out of genuine love for humanity just get evidence, him go use him money still help you get justice. If you love vdm work shout power 😂😂😂 Na ratel I be because I get sense and conscience we h@te oppression and intimidation.

26/08/2025

Don’t lose a good woman chasing temporary fun.

A good woman is more than love—she is peace, loyalty, and a steady presence when life gets heavy.

She stands by you, pours into you, and loves you in ways you may not even realize until it’s gone.

Temporary pleasure fades quickly, but the regret of letting her slip away lasts far longer than the moment ever will.

A good woman is rare, her love is irreplaceable, and her loyalty cannot be bought.

Protect her, honor her, and cherish her, because when you lose a good woman, you don’t just lose love—you lose the kind of treasure that only comes once in a lifetime.

24/08/2025

Congratulations we don born💃💃💃💃

30/07/2025

You can’t demand submission from a woman who provides for herself like a man.
The more she pays, the less she obeys.

11/07/2025

The idea that single mothers should marry for companionship, particularly with men in their 50s, raises several points to consider:

1. _Companionship vs. romance_: While marriage can provide companionship, emotional support, and stability, it's essential to distinguish between companionship and romance. Single mothers may prioritize emotional connection, shared responsibilities, and mutual support over physical intimacy.

2. _Sexual activity and age_: It's true that sexual activity and libido can decline with age. However, this varies greatly among individuals. Some men in their 50s may remain sexually active and healthy, while others may experience decline. Communication, intimacy, and emotional connection can still be vital aspects of a relationship.

3. _Prioritizing needs_: Single mothers should consider their own needs, desires, and priorities when evaluating potential partners. If companionship is a primary goal, they may seek relationships that offer emotional support, shared responsibilities, and friendship.

4. _Healthy relationships_: A healthy relationship involves mutual respect, trust, communication, and understanding. Single mothers should prioritize finding a partner who respects their boundaries, supports their needs, and values their relationship.

5. _Societal pressures_: Societal expectations often emphasize traditional romantic relationships. However, single mothers should focus on their personal happiness, well-being, and fulfillment rather than conforming to societal norms.

6. _Diverse relationships_: Relationships come in various forms, and single mothers may explore different types of connections, such as friendships, mentorship, or romantic relationships that prioritize emotional intimacy.

Ultimately, single mothers should prioritize their own needs, desires, and well-being when considering marriage or relationships. By focusing on mutual respect, trust, and communication, they can build fulfilling connections that support their emotional and practical needs.

Would you like me to explore any specific aspect of this topic further?

21/06/2025

Single motherhood is a journey like no other. It's a path filled with challenges, triumphs, and countless moments of joy. As a single mother, you're not just a parent; you're a caregiver, a provider, a teacher, and a role model all rolled into one.

The journey of single motherhood can be overwhelming, especially when faced with financial struggles. Managing the household, paying bills, and providing for your child's needs can be a constant source of stress. However, despite the challenges, many single mothers find strength and resilience within themselves.

Parenting as a single mother requires a unique set of skills and qualities. You must be patient, understanding, and nurturing, while also being firm and disciplined. You must be able to provide for your child's physical, emotional, and psychological needs, often without the support of a partner.

One of the most significant challenges single mothers face is financial instability. Providing for your child's needs, from basic necessities like food and clothing to extracurricular activities and education, can be a significant burden. However, many single mothers find creative ways to make ends meet, from budgeting and saving to seeking out community resources and support.

Despite the challenges, single motherhood can be incredibly rewarding. Watching your child grow and develop, seeing them learn and thrive, and knowing that you're shaping their future is an incredible feeling. As a single mother, you have the opportunity to build a strong, loving relationship with your child, one that's based on trust, respect, and mutual support.

Single mothers also face societal stigma and judgment, which can be hurtful and damaging. However, it's essential to remember that being a single mother doesn't define your worth as a parent or a person. You're doing your best, and that's something to be proud of.

If you're a single mother reading this, know that you're not alone. There are countless others out there who are facing similar challenges and triumphs. Don't be afraid to reach out for support, whether it's from family, friends, or community resources. You deserve to be celebrated and supported, not judged or criticized.

In conclusion, single motherhood is a journey that's filled with challenges and rewards. It requires strength, resilience, and determination, but it also offers the opportunity to build a strong, loving relationship with your child. As a single mother, you're doing an amazing job, and that's something to be proud of.

Single Motherhood is the definition of the best Mother in the world we don't Mess around ,We focus on our kids,But we should start hangout and other activities that will make us happy in our unique ways.
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20/06/2025

I admire women who leave. Period.

I don’t care if you left the first time he disrespected you, or if it took 12 years, 6 breakups, 3 "I'm sorry, I'll change"s, and a thousand silent tears behind closed doors—I admire that s**t.
Because, you know what? Leaving isn’t easy. People love to say “just walk away” like that doesn’t come with pain, guilt, fear, confusion, or even grief. But choosing to leave something familiar—even when it’s toxic—is a radical act of self-love.

I don’t care how long it took you. If people called you stupid, weak, naive for staying—ignore them. They don’t understand the emotional and psychological layers it takes to finally wake up one day and say, “I can’t do this anymore.”
You might have loved him with your whole heart, saw a future, had kids together,had houses, sacrificed pieces of yourself just to keep it all together—but when you chose you to leave, you did something powerful. You reclaimed your life. You took your power back.

And to anyone watching from the sidelines, let me say this:
Don’t you ever judge a woman for the time it took her to leave. Celebrate her for the moment she finally did. That’s courage. That’s healing. That’s real growth.
And to the woman who’s still in the middle of it, still thinking maybe he'll change, still weighing her heart against her peace—you'll get there. And when you do, I promise you, the freedom on the other side is worth every step it took to get out.

So yes ,I admire women who leave. Who broke the cycle. Who stopped the bleeding. Who packed their bags—whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually—and said “enough.” You are not weak. You are not late. You are dope as hell for saving yourself.

16/06/2025

My mum Retired from Benue
Walahi During my pregnancy days she send loads of fruit Tor me
Food nko
I visited at a time and neighbors tot I traveled abroad becos of how my skin was shining at the Time

It's sad to see a whole food basket of the nation go down this way

Nb ;she sent us 90tubers of yam for 2k

Let pray for Benue State May Almighty Allah Ease their affairs.😭😭😭

11/03/2025

May Allah accept our Ramadan as an act of ibadah

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