Papa Josiah Bella.

21/03/2025

If you are a woman,

— and if you get a man who is ready to marry you,

Ready to build you a house,which as a woman it's your duty to turn it into a home.

He is older than you, fit and focused.

Stick with that man. Don't be rude and disrespectful. Be submissive and plug yourself into his purpose.

Don't listen to your mother's advice. She is also jealous.

— Did you know that mothers envy their daughters? Especially if she is a single mother.

Don't listen to your squad of unmarried women. You will lose the road to a prosperous marriage.

— and this women will turn around and mock you. Some will even begin flirting with him.

Stay on course.

Value the marriage.

It is difficult, it is not easy, but it must be fulfilled.

Otherwise,

You will hit 35 very soon with no one to protect and provide for you.

The world is rough for women above 35 Years. It won't pamper you the way it did in your 20s. It will ravage you mercilessly. - and you will be raising placards crying how men are scarce. They are not scarce. They have just discovered they are the prize. 🏆
I know ladies won't like this one,and will throw stones at me,but that's the bitter truth 😔

CHANGE OR PERISH


BrBreaking Gossip

14/03/2025

A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she dumps you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him.

Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more...

Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite:

1. First, they find, then they finish.

2. First, they secure, then they let go.

3. First, they plan, then they execute.

✋ It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar.

This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen:

1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship.

2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long.

3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment.

4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it.

Here's the truth they don’t tell you:

👉 If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her.
👉 If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere.
👉 If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with.

The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move.

Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared.

Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space."

BreBreaking Gossip

13/03/2025

HOW A WOMAN CAN MAKE HER MAN LOVE LOVING HER

1. CORRECT HIM
Men, love it when the woman tells him when he wrongs. The problem is many women don't know how to correct. Correct him with love, "Honey, don't you think it would have been better if..."; don't scold him like he is a little boy. Approach and tone is key. Don't attack

2. CHALLENGE HIM
Do greater things on your own, inspire him, expose him to greatness, make progress in your life that he feels he needs to pull up his socks. Don't just sit lazy. A man wants a woman who is hungry for her own personal growth. Challenging him doesn't mean looking down on him or asking why can't he be like other men?

3. NEED HIM
Men love feeling needed. Lovingly ask him for help, ask him for advice, "My love, what do you think I should do?". Involve him in your life and when he does help, thank him

4. PRAY FOR HIM
No matter the level of a man's spirituality, prayer is respected and considered sacred. Pray for him, let him hear you pray for him

5. PRAISE HIM
The kind of compliments men love are, "You are such a good man", "You make a great dad", "Your mind is incredible", "You have a s*xy body", "I love how you touch me", "My honey, I am proud of you". Praise him in private and in public. Don't be that woman who is quick to point out his flaws but rarely highlighs what he does right

6. SEXUALLY MAKE ADVANCES
Many women think s*x is to be left to the man, so they wait for the man to make advances. They become passive and shy during s*x. Lady, your husband will love it sometimes if you are s*xually aggressive, ask for his body, reach for his p***s. Show him that you know he belongs to you. Make s*x an adventure

7. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM
Ask him how his day is, his dreams, if he is OK. Most women want the man to show interest but they don't show interest back

8. TRUST HIM, DON'T MICROMANAGE HIM
Don't be overly posssessive, demanding him to spend every second with you.
Breaking Gossip

13/03/2025

Don't gain the world and loose your soul, Wisdom is better than silver and gold.





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