13/05/2026
🏃 40 days to go till the Hebway 2026. 🏃
That also means 40 days until Dad would have turned 64.
It’s dawned on me recently that I don’t know everyone that my Dad knew. It’s obvious, really but it was funny to meet a man fairly recently who commented on me being like my Dad. Now, this man was a regular on the ferries and I’m sure there are many more people like him who knew Dad in a work capacity that we still haven’t had the pleasure of meeting. I definitely look forward to meeting them and hearing more about Dad, because we all miss him so much.
Alasdair Iain is running the Hebridean Way on Dad’s birthday to raise money for Lucky2BHere to raise funds for more defibrillators in Barra - an island that means so much to us as a family because it’s there Mam and Dad brought us up.
That isn’t the only island in the Western Isles that Dad had connections with, though.
As a young boy, Dad often spent time with his Granny in Gernish in South Uist - and we would go and visit his aunties and uncle in Uist when Dad was on his time off. I think island life was something Dad loved from a young age, despite growing up in Fort William.
Dad’s work took him to many a place over the years. He worked on the small ferry between Eoligarry and Ludag, before they took cars.
He worked on the Northern Lighthouse Boats, that he enjoyed so much we had a dog named Fingal, after one of their ships!
He worked for CalMac in the small ferry “pool” which had him work across the small ferry network and gave us kids the chance to go and visit him in Mull.
He also spent a lot of his time working on the Sound of Harris ferry, staying with a lovely lady in Berneray when he was on shift. This was back in the days when there wasn’t a sailing on a Sunday, and many a time we went to visit Dad on his day off. It has to be said, the beaches there aren’t all that bad…
Once our littlest brother was born, Dad worked on the Sound of Barra ferry so he could come home every night. It was also a ferry he could keep a watchful eye on - from the comfort of his own living room chair!
So, this run will no doubt be an emotional one. Not just for us, but for people the length of the islands who knew Dad.
Alasdair Iain will no doubt feel love and support from his own friends and colleagues from his time working in Harris for SSEN and from living and working in Lewis.
The Outer Hebrides has a special place in our hearts and as a family and we thank you all for your kind support on this mission to raise funds, awareness and to break the fastest known time record in memory of our Dad.
As much as he’d hate all this fuss about him, and I’m sure he’d have a joke or two for Alasdair Iain about running the distance when he’s got a perfectly good car, he’d be proud of Alasdair Iain’s hard work and determination up to now and appreciate the love and support we’ve been given since his passing.
He will however be cursing us, as his go-to phrase was “now, don’t be posting that on Facebook!!”
-Aileen.
Donald Roderick Michael Elder ❤️
https://www.justgiving.com/page/alasdair-iain-elder-5