06/06/2026
Let’s go back nine years, when both Rachel & Mark were sweet and innocent, with very little dating experience..
M. I was 20 and Rachel was 18. We first starting speaking on social media, Rachel’s convinced I messaged her first, but I recall it slightly differently, she absolutely messaged me first.
R. Back in 2016, when Instagram released its 'story' feature, Mark put his Snapchat username on his story. Very out of character of me, I added him and sent a Snapchat of a smoothie I had made. He responded, and the rest is history! I have no idea what was spoken about but after a couple of weeks messaging we went on our first date to the cinema. Perfect first date I thought, for introverted me.
M. I remember going to pick her up from her house absolutely bricking it cause it was the first serious date I’d ever been on. She walked out the door, and I was sitting in my car looking at her trying to make eye contact whilst she was staring at the ground the whole time making it even more awkward.
R. I messaged my friend some pictures of outfits, asking her advice on what I should wear. She asked if I was excited, to which I responded "kinda, but I wish we were only going to Elgin rather than Inverness, so I don't need to speak to him for as long in the car". Mark sped up the cul-de-sac to pick me up in his Corsa, and I was greeted with an overwhelming smell of aftershave (some things never change)
M. She got in the car, so I was asking her how she was, how her day had been etc and I was literally getting one word answers. I was thinking to myself this is going to be a long date. As cliche as it sounds I knew back at the very start that we were going to be in for it the long haul. I still remember what she was wearing on that first date; a yellow top, black jeans, black leather jacket and a pair of black sandals that Roxy (her family’s cockapoo) ended up demolishing. I feel that deserves some brownie points!
R. After a bit of small talk and a cinema date later, we agreed to seeing each other again. A couple of months later, Mark asked "so, what do you think about us then?" to which I replied, "aye everything's fine". This was his way of asking if I wanted to be his girlfriend and without actually saying the words, we had become 'official'. Neither of us had ever been in a serious relationship before so our family and friends were chuffed to bits.
First impressions?
M. I was very nervous, she was the first person that I had any serious intentions with at that time of my life, so I felt that during those first few dates she seemed quiet and innocent which I later realised was 100% correct. I was asking her questions and getting one word answers, it was like talking to a wall, and as we were in my car and the cinema was over an hour away, so it was awkward.
R. I remember thinking he had nice big muscly arms and that he was very polite and well mannered. He was able to keep good conversation going, which would have been a challenge with me at that stage in my life where I was very awkward and reserved. I was attracted to him but more importantly I thought he was kind, respectful and our morals aligned.
M. Things were going really well, Rachel was studying at university in Aberdeen, and I was working in Buckie. After about a year together, a week before our first holiday she started really panicking about our future because she had intentions on working in Glasgow or Edinburgh once she finished uni, meanwhile I was happy working and living in Buckie.
R. As I was romanticising this future life of ours, I was knocked back to reality when Mark said he was going to be putting an offer in for a house in Buckie. Life was over. How could we last if I moved 4 hours away with crazy shift patterns? My parents must have thought I was ridiculous being so emotional about such big decisions when we were only young and in a relatively new relationship.
M. After about a month or two of going back and forth about what we were going to do, I reluctantly decided to apply for a job in Glasgow. Turns out I got the job, moved down and Rachel followed a year or so later and it ended up being the best thing that ever happened to us.
Their day was perfect, they looked like a couple from a Hollywood movie with all their friends and family surrounding them and even the weather behaved. Congratulations Mr & Mrs Campbell ❤️